The Shy (or Cautious) Kid’s Guide to Disneyland

Going to Disneyland seems to be every kid’s dream, but it can overwhelming for especially for kids who tend to be a bit shy or cautious. Here are a few tips to help make their experience a great one.

1. Prepare them Ahead of Time

One of the best things you can do is make Disneyland familiar to your kid before you even go. Talk about the kinds of experiences they might have, show them Disney DVDs so they recognize the characters and songs. Show them pictures of Disneyland and show them what the characters look like with other kids, and look up videos on Youtube. You can also order a Disney vacation planning DVD that will include some video of the park.

2. Choose Your Rides Carefully

If you’ve already taken your kid to a fair or amusement park, you may already have an idea of what kinds of rides they might like. If you are not sure how your kid will react to the rides, I recommend starting with gentler rides and build from there. Disneyland does a great job of not making their less thrilling rides seem babyish. Many of the rides in Disneyland also have a experiential component that can make a fairly tame ride quite spooky, like Pirates of the Caribbean or the Haunted Mansion. It’s also important to note that the height requirements are there for safety reasons and may not indicate how age appropriate a ride is.

3. Be Prepared for Different Reactions to Characters

It can be hard to predict how your kids will react to the characters in the park. Some kids are scared of them, particularly the large animal ones like bears. Others like to see them, but don’t want to pose for pictures. Some can handle the characters that look like people but not the ones in full costume. Gordie found the fairies to be the most disconcerting because they were a lot bigger than they are in the movie. He is usually pretty outgoing but rarely wanted to pose for pictures. Nicky on the other hand is usually quite shy but surprised me by giving hugs and posing for pictures.

4. Be Flexible and Involve Them In the Planning

Being on vacation takes kids out of their typical schedule and routines which can make them feel like things are out of their control. Involving your child in deciding what to do can help them feel more secure. At the same time, be willing to deviate from your plans for the day and take advantage of something that has them excited.

5. Let Them Be the Photographer

If your kid is interested in meeting the characters but doesn’t want to get their picture taken with them, let them take pictures of the characters instead. Then when you come home they will still have a picture to remember meeting the characters but don’t have to pose for a photograph. This is something I really wish I had thought to do with Gordie while we were still at the park.

6. Try a Character Breakfast

Disneyland has a character breakfast at a restaurant in each of the two parks and one at each of the Disneyland Hotels. These can be a great way for your kids to meet some of their favorite characters in a lower stress environment. The characters at the restaurants walk around and visit each table. You can get a little more interaction from the characters instead of just a posed photo and you don’t have to stand in line. Each character breakfast has a different set of characters.

7. Use an Autograph Book to Break the Ice

Another strategy you can use with the characters is an autograph book. It can help break the ice by giving your kid a job to do and a conversation starter. You can also sneak a photo of your child with the character even if they won’t pose for a picture. This worked great for Gordie. He posed for almost no photos with the characters but was more than willing to ask for the characters autographs.

8. Check of the Other Things Disneyland Has to Offer

Disneyland has a lot to offer beyond rides and characters. For instance, you could watch a parade or enjoy the fireworks.

Take in a musical performance.

Or try pin trading.

9 . Have Some Down Time

Allow your kid to have some down time if they need it. Find a spot on a bench and watch the crowd go by, have a long lunch, watch a theatre show or take a ride on the train or the Mark Twain Riverboat.

You may also want to read the other Disneyland Travel posts I have written:

I have also written up an overviews of Disneyland Park and Disneyland’s California Adventure Park on my other blog, Calgary Playground Review.

Comments

Merry120 says

January 31, 2014 at 5:28 pm

Fantastic post Dana! We have taken Evan to Disneyland and Disney World. He loves it but there were definite issues that we could have avoided. He is TERRIFIED of the characters and we took him on two rides that scared him half to death (Stitch’s Wild Ride and Pirates of the Caribbean). Thankfully we turned it around and now he loves Disney and asks when we can go back!